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Post by Gator on Aug 11, 2019 14:58:32 GMT -5
I get the impression, she didn't take rejection very well!
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Post by Bornthrilla on Aug 11, 2019 16:49:52 GMT -5
Rejection from who?
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Post by aggie2039 on Aug 11, 2019 18:11:45 GMT -5
Seems like she has a personal vendetta against the coach vs being more concerned with ensuring the guy that assaulted her is prosecuted 🤷🏾‍♂️. She needs to get her priorities in order and some help from a licensed therapist.
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Post by saabman on Aug 12, 2019 0:00:11 GMT -5
Seems like she has a personal vendetta against the coach vs being more concerned with ensuring the guy that assaulted her is prosecuted 🤷🏾‍♂️. She needs to get her priorities in order and some help from a licensed therapist. Really "she needs to get her priorities in order and some help from a licensed counselor" . You think ! Has A&T's Administration reach out to the young lady and offered her emotional professional counseling ? Having worked in the counseling field with some first-hand experience in a situation similar to this at the previous School . It is the administration's priority to reach out to the alleged victim and offer her all the help and resources that she needs . But the vibe that I am getting from that statement that she posted is she is ticked off at the administration because she is feeling victimized again first by the coaches that she confided in and second by lack of punitive administrative action . Just giving someone there scholarship back does healed the emotional wounds that have been opened without proper oversight from individuals and Administration that she put her trust in . I do not feel that this is going away anytime soon because someone is dragging their feet on this . It is evident that this young lady has not found closer with the actions of the coaching staff or the actions that have been taken by the Administration . Something about this whole situation is just not right . It is the priority of the school to look after the well-being of their student-athletes and it is not the young ladies priorities that seem to be in question here but priorities of the administration .
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Post by aggie2039 on Aug 12, 2019 7:56:36 GMT -5
The thing is one of the coaches has been demoted🤷🏾‍♂️, that is administrative action taken against a coach for this situation. I too have dealt with situations in which people have a spicific action in mind, she wants the coach fired and nothing else will make her happy. Our administration decided what the best action to take was based off the severity of the situation, i trust our leadership and also know the young lady will never be satisfied until she gets what she wants. Which is the coach fired, in her letter she spoke about the coach yelling and insulting her along with the assault. The assault has nothing to do with the yelling and being insulted in practice, her bringing those in the conversation about assault provides shows that she has a vendetta against the coach versus being concerned about the assault and wanting justice.
I’m sure the school has offered counseling services but she doesn’t have to go if she doesn’t want to. At a certain point the victim has to want to get better.
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Post by 919aggie on Aug 12, 2019 10:15:03 GMT -5
The thing is one of the coaches has been demoted🤷🏾‍♂️, that is administrative action taken against a coach for this situation. I too have dealt with situations in which people have a spicific action in mind, she wants the coach fired and nothing else will make her happy. Our administration decided what the best action to take was based off the severity of the situation, i trust our leadership and also know the young lady will never be satisfied until she gets what she wants. Which is the coach fired, in her letter she spoke about the coach yelling and insulting her along with the assault. The assault has nothing to do with the yelling and being insulted in practice, her bringing those in the conversation about assault provides shows that she has a vendetta against the coach versus being concerned about the assault and wanting justice. I’m sure the school has offered counseling services but she doesn’t have to go if she doesn’t want to. At a certain point the victim has to want to get better. My thoughts exactly! If you actually read the things she post, you would think that the coach is the person who committed the assault. Never mentions the other guy..only about getting the coach fired. Seems personal to me. Just looks terrible for the university.
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Post by oleschoolaggie on Aug 12, 2019 17:48:06 GMT -5
for what its worth, coach "t" rob just signed a "contract extension". i rather not judge what happened in this situation as i was not party to any of the events and therefore not in a position to do so. however, i just wish folk would handle their business "behind closed doors" rather than air their dirty laundry in the public and i'll leave it at that...
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Post by saabman on Aug 14, 2019 2:29:55 GMT -5
The thing is one of the coaches has been demoted🤷🏾‍♂️, that is administrative action taken against a coach for this situation. I too have dealt with situations in which people have a spicific action in mind, she wants the coach fired and nothing else will make her happy. Our administration decided what the best action to take was based off the severity of the situation, i trust our leadership and also know the young lady will never be satisfied until she gets what she wants. Which is the coach fired, in her letter she spoke about the coach yelling and insulting her along with the assault. The assault has nothing to do with the yelling and being insulted in practice, her bringing those in the conversation about assault provides shows that she has a vendetta against the coach versus being concerned about the assault and wanting justice. I’m sure the school has offered counseling services but she doesn’t have to go if she doesn’t want to. At a certain point the victim has to want to get better. My thoughts exactly! If you actually read the things she post, you would think that the coach is the person who committed the assault. Never mentions the other guy..only about getting the coach fired. Seems personal to me. Just looks terrible for the university. In assault situations what is more hurtful to the victim is none action on the part of the people that she felt would be there for her . As Dr King would say " IT IS NOT THE ACTIONS OF THE ONES THAT HARMED YOU THAT YOU WILL REMEMBER BUT IT IS THE NON ACTIONS OF THE ONES THAT STOOD BY AND DID NOTHING " so I can understand where the young lady is coming from . The only question I CONTINUE to have is ; Is this so call investigation has it been completed in both cases ? If the answer is NO . Then my next question is why not and why ? As far airing one's dirty laundry and these cases are not closed are we as civil model citizens and former Aggies should we just let this ride and not say a word ? So I guess Aggie Pride and Aggies Do is just a figure of speech then . I am willing to drop the subject if someone would tell me of these cases are closed ? And if not I will CONTINUE to inquire about the reasons why they are not .
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Post by bseballaggie on Aug 14, 2019 7:52:09 GMT -5
My thoughts exactly! If you actually read the things she post, you would think that the coach is the person who committed the assault. Never mentions the other guy..only about getting the coach fired. Seems personal to me. Just looks terrible for the university. In assault situations what is more hurtful to the victim is none action on the part of the people that she felt would be there for her . As Dr King would say " IT IS NOT THE ACTIONS OF THE ONES THAT HARMED YOU THAT YOU WILL REMEMBER BUT IT IS THE NON ACTIONS OF THE ONES THAT STOOD BY AND DID NOTHING " so I can understand where the young lady is coming from . The only question I CONTINUE to have is ; Is this so call investigation has it been completed in both cases ? If the answer is NO . Then my next question is why not and why ? As far airing one's dirty laundry and these cases are not closed are we as civil model citizens and former Aggies should we just let this ride and not say a word ? So I guess Aggie Pride and Aggies Do is just a figure of speech then . I am willing to drop the subject if someone would tell me of these cases are closed ? And if not I will CONTINUE to inquire about the reasons why they are not . I will agree with, Saab this is strange, I'm hoping the Administration hasn't fumbled here, a coach demotion, not termination. The parents of our female recruits deserve, a real assessment of what is going on here. She has slandered the University and its Coaches on Social media, and there is a slap on the wrist and Promotion. Is this recruit mental, or feeling betrayed, theirs a lot of information forwarded by her, including a repeat accusation of body shaming, insult accusation. What happened to the accuser is she in school on campus? The Attacker?
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